The definition of “fine folks”
Recently our school carried out the annual battery of standardized tests. My colleague and friend Nicole sent me emails, as the tests were being conducted, to check on my emotional and mental state. Testing is stressful for teachers!
Long ago I decided to not let standardized tests get me too worked up. Yes, I worry about them and fret about the results, but I do not let anxiety overwhelm me. It only adds to the duress of my students. I simply express faith in their abilities and confidence in my coverage of all necessary topics to prepare for those evaluations.
I messaged back to Nicole that I had done my best and I was going to let God and my students do the rest. Her reply brought tears to my eyes and a swelling of my heart.
Nicole told me that I fit the definition of “fine folk” because I did the best I could with what I had. I know this sounds like a derogatory statement towards my students, but it was really a literary allusion of the greatest magnitude.
Nicole and I have both taught and LOVE the novel, To Kill a Mockingbird, and in Chapter 13 Scout states her belief that fine folks are people who do the best they can with what they have, no matter their race, gender, or religion. Scout’s immeasurable sense of justice has always appealed to me, and the fact that Nicole believed I was living up to that level of civility was amazing to me.
Today I want to challenge others to fulfill the definition of “fine folks” in their lives. Use what you have to the fullest of your abilities and treat all those you encounter as if they too are “fine folk.”
Appreciate all that is “fine” in your world and only the best will show itself to you in each experience and encounter.
Thank you, Nicole, for believing in me. You, too, are the finest of folk!
By: Melanie A. Peters
That’s true. When I express gratitude and kindness and all that is fine, I seem to receive more of the same but when I’m in a bad mood it seems like the universe keeps giving more bad situations. I appreciate all the little things that make up my life and feel that I am very blessed and hope that my enthusiasm for life becomes contagious for someone else who may be struggling.
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This is so apt.My older son will be taking the state tests in one week’s time and as a parent ,sometimes I can’t help worrying. Thank you for reminding me that teachers are sometimes stressed too and that I just need to take a deep breath and have complete faith.
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I have linked this post from your blog in my latest post. Thank you for the opportunity and for all the wonderful work you do! 🙂
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You are part of my fine folk 🙂
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I really enjoyed “To Kill a Mockingbird” also. That is a great goal to be “fine folks”. We must always be satisfied that we have done our best. I don’t think there’s anyone who would decide to do less.
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